Monday, December 4, 2023
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As sadness still hangs in the air, I've chosen to reflect on the greatness of the Legacy that my oldest brother Ron has left with us. After the news of his terminal diagnosis was delivered to Ron & those of us present at the hospital in T.C., I chose to tag team with his son Rick and family, to remain at his bedside for however long he needed someone with him for the 6 days he was there. During those 10-12-hour days visiting, his mind was sharp as could be, so he and I were able to review the great history and joy of our youth, discussing things, laughing, giving thanks to each other for what we did for and with each other, as well as other family, relatives, friends and neighbors. While he & we all knew the end was near, he faced it with as much pride and honor as he could muster. He reflected on his Marriage, kids, grandkids, great grand kids, service to the U.S. Army. Being a son, a brother, a relative to many, and talking about everyone that he knew that he could think of. His son Rick and daughter in law, Wendy, had long invited Ron to move into their home to be with them and their daughters as he struggled with declining health the last decade, but Ron refused until he received his terminal diagnosis. Then he quickly agreed it was time. So thankfully, Ron was discharged into hospice and had one last ride with his son Rick in his pickup truck to their home on a lovely sunny day for the ride. Ron was then able to spend his final week with Rick, Wendy, Kristin, and Kaitlin, and their dog Harper, in their home! After we got him settled in there for a couple days, I decided it was time to depart for my home and thus, sat, holding hands, and we had a final discussion together. We both enjoyed tearful hug and said our goodbyes. Two final comments that indicated he was ready to move on after receiving his diagnosis: he told us in the hospital that he probably "would not make it to thanksgiving", which was true in the end; and he " was ready to go see what Marilyn was up to" (the love of his life who passed approximately 20 years prior).. Rest in Peace Brother Ron!
Michael. [ Hope you enjoy the picture of Ron Sr, his two sons (Rick and Ron Jr), and his two brothers (John and I) at Ron Jr's wedding and it brings a smile to your day].
